Yesterday was Adam’s last day of chemotherapy. Over the last ten weeks, Adam has had nearly 200 hours worth of chemo pumped into his body. It has been a grueling, tiring, challenging journey, and while his chapter with cancer isn’t done being written, yesterday was a turning point in the plot line.
The day seemed to creep by slower than most; for me, because of anticipation, and for Adam because of exhaustion. We watched them hook up the last bag of chemo to his IV pump and squeezed our hands together a little tighter.
I flashed back to a memory of the first day of chemo, when the first bag started dripping and the tears re-welled in my eyes. Last day tears are very different from first day tears. As the IV pump began beeping to let us know the chemo had all dripped out, an overwhelming sense of joy washed over us. We hugged the nurses who we have grown so fond of, we said goodbye to the receptionists who know us well by now, and we walked out of the chemo room.
And the sobs began.
Sobs inspired by how proud I am of my husband. Sobs of relief. Sobs because I’m tired.
We didn’t talk much on the way home. Adam is an internal processor and I wanted him to have space to take in the significance of the day. Quiet came easier for me because I was terrified that I would spill the beans about the secret waiting for him at home. I had kept this secret for a few weeks but the last few minutes felt unbearable.
Over the last few months in the chemo room, I had watched other patients announce it was their last day of treatment without much celebration or fanfare, and I decided that wouldn’t do for Adam. So I cooked up a little “Chemo Finish Line Party” at our house. I pitched the idea to a few friends and family and of course, because our people love us so well, they changed their work schedules and bus pickups to be there.
Adam and I turned onto our street and were met with an insanely joyous 15 minute party with dear ones lining our walkway to the streamer finish line. They had a medal, signs, sweatbands, and unlimited high fives. We toasted with gatorade and we hugged and then we broke up the party because chemo is exhausting.
Today I’m less chemo-sobby and more thankful for our kemosabes – for the amazing people that have been our faithful sidekicks; especially during this chapter. We are incredibly blessed by the people who are cheering us on, caring for us, and continuing to trek this with us all over the world, all over the US, and all over Nashville. We’re raising our leftover gatorade shot glasses to you this morning.
Thanks to Karen McGee and Brad Harris for the gift of pictures so we can remember this day for a long, long time.
8 thoughts on “Chemo-Sobby”
Allie, I had no idea you had done this when I sent Adam the text about finishing the chemo marathon.
Cheers!! What a marathon!! We will be praying for this next chapter.
I LOVE that you guys did this!
That is truly one of the most wonderful and beautiful last-day-of-chemo-celebrations I have seen. It brought tears to my eyes. As with your entire journey, thanks for sharing.
What a great way to end this part of your journey! I LOVE the awesome support you have locally. They are the ones who carry you through physically and emotionally. We will be continuing to pray for God’s healing hand to be upon Adam’s body and for Adam’s strength and endurance to be built back up. Hugs & love
I am crying at my desk at work as I read this! How beautiful! what a wonderful celebration for this monumental moment on this journey!! Love you